- Both of you get the benefit of other points of view.
- Each of you has a different cache of words in your vocabulary.
- You bring a variety of musical models into play.
- You bounce ideas off each other in a way not possible by yourself.
- Join a songwriting group and ask if a member would be interested in working together.
- Agree on ground rules and use a contract to spell out working terms.
- Leave your ego at the door. Respect the other person and the learning available to you from the relationship.
- Decide on your focus: are you working on a specific project or song, or are you doing a free association thing to come up with new ideas?
- Create a timeline and follow it. Commit to starting and ending on time when you're working together.
- Choose ahead of time when your collaboration will be completed or tabled.
- Remember that it's business; don't take things personally. A professional will always look to see what lessons can be learned in any situation.
My collaborations have always been where I add music to someone's lyrics. The words may lend themselves to 3/4 time, like a waltz, or it may be more free form. You may have to go back and rework the melody a few times, especially if the lyrics change. You may need to amp up the chorus, or insert or delete a bridge. In any case, your craft deepens as you work it.
Some of the best-loved songs have been written by two or more people, and many musicals and operas have separate composers and lyricists. It's always nice not to have to do everything yourself, so try something new and check out the possibilities of collaborating with another songwriter. You'll be glad you did!